TOP services to help players with addiction
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Help works better when it's layered: urgent support (hotlines/chats) + structural work (therapy, groups, financial advisors) + technical barriers (self-exclusion, blockers). Below is a list of key services and how to use them so as not to "break" back.
1) 24-hour hotlines and online chats
Why: A quick conversation with a trained professional when "on fire."
What they give: de-escalation of emotions, a plan of the next steps, contacts of local centers.
How to use: save the number/link in advance; call/write on impulse "right now."
Preparation: briefly state the situation: "frequency of play, debts, breakdowns, were there thoughts of self-harm/suicide."
2) Mutual aid groups (online and offline)
Examples of formats: anonymous groups of players, SMART approach (cognitive skills), family groups for loved ones.
What they give: equal-to-equal support, regular rhythm of meetings, a sense of non-loneliness, exchange of sobriety/self-control practices.
How to choose: 2-3 trial meetings in different formats; stay where there is contact and practical effect.
3) Psychotherapy with a focus on behavioral addictions
Approaches: CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy), motivational interviewing, failure prevention, work with comorbid anxiety/depression.
Tasks: trigger map, substitution plan, stop and pause skill, strengthening money/time boundaries, work with guilt and shame.
How to look: a licensed specialist, experience in gambling behavior, an understandable therapy plan and measurable goals.
4) Financial advisors and debt relief services
Why: get out of the "red zone" of money without the illusion of "catching up with a loss."
What they do: inventory of debts, negotiations on restructuring, priority of payments, protection against microloans "in a fever."
How to prepare: list of accounts, interest rates, terms, minimum payments, income/expenses.
5) Self-exclusion programs and timeouts
Why: "hard stop" access to the game for a period of days to months (at the operator/through the regulator).
Who is suitable: with repeated breakdowns, night sessions, debts, violation of their own rules.
What to do right now: issue a timeout of 24-72 hours; if the pattern is persistent - self-exclusion for 6-12 months.
6) Site/app blockers and "night silence"
Tools: system Screen Time/Digital Wellbeing, Freedom/Cold Turkey/LeechBlock applications, Focus/Do Not Disturb modes.
Task: remove "fast routes" to the deposit and games, close access at night, add "friction" to the entrance.
Rule: the block is always on; changes - only with a delay (without "removed for the evening").
7) Health and crisis services
When: intrusive thoughts of self-harm, severe insomnia/panic, threats to oneself or others.
Action: Urgently call local emergency services/crisis help lines.
Important: safety is primary; game issues are resolved after stabilization.
8) Support for loved ones
Why it matters: The environment often burns out and inadvertently intensifies the cycle ("rescue," conflicts).
What to do for loved ones: own groups/consultations, financial borders, a plan of "red lines," safe communication without accusations ("observation-feeling-need-request").
9) Online self-help resources
What to look for: proven CBT exercise libraries, trigger diaries, limit checklists, spending calculators, gaming behavior screening tests.
How to use: 10-15 minutes a day - recording triggers, emotions, results; weekly review.
10) How to combine help (4-week plan)
Week 1 - "Shutdown"
Timeout/self-exclusion; blockers + "night silence."
Call the hotline; schedule a first therapeutic consultation.
Financial inventory, freezing fast replenishment.
Week 2 - "Structure"
First mutual aid group (online/offline).
Debt restructuring plan with a consultant.
Personal limits: time, losses, deposits; 24 hour rule.
Week 3 - "Skills"
CBT tools: implementation intentions, trigger diary, "stop-30/25" (pauses every 25-30 minutes in any "sticky" activity).
List of quick replacements (walk, water, warm-up, call).
Week 4 - "Anchoring"
Revision of progress with therapist and in group.
Adjustment of limits (only down/no increases).
3 month plan: meetings, time/money reports once a week.
11) Ready for handling checklist
- Brief description of the problem (how often, how much, what I've tried)
- Emergency and emergency service contacts preserved
- Docs/Lists for Therapist and Financial Advisor
- Timeout/Blockers/Night Silence Enabled
- First treatment group/session planned
12) How to choose a reliable service
Verifiability: licenses/affiliations, transparent privacy rules.
Specialization: experience in gaming addiction.
Availability: 24/7 where stated; real communication channels (telephone, chat, e-mail).
Ethics: Lack of aggressive marketing, "just today" pressure.
Reviews: better - from specialized organizations/communities, and not anonymous "miracle stories."
13) Mini "if pulls to break" memo (copy)
1. Stop: Close the app/website.
2. Breathing 6 cycles (4-2-6).
3. Chat/call support.
4. Enable the 24-72 hour timeout.
5. Do one of the quick steps: water, shower, walk 10 minutes, 20 squats, call a friend.
6. Tomorrow - therapist/group; today - no game.
There are many services, but the best is the one that you connected in advance and use in conjunction: hotline + therapy/group + financial assistance + technical barriers. Asking for support is not a weakness, but a competent strategy to regain control of money, time and life.